priorities

why is it that people are so interested in telling me i'll die early because i'm fat and not in the fact that i have an untreated mental illness that causes me to try to end my own life on a semi-regular basis? i think that's a more pressing issue than being kinda tubby, don't you? i guess i just find these people a wee bit disingenuous. just say you don't like looking at fat people; don't pretend you're interested in anyone's health or quality of life.