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i've been very organized this semester, which is unusual. i have a little planner in which i write all of my assignments and cross off days as they go by in the hopes that i will get better at knowing what the date is. (it's not working.) i also have a binder which is covered in stickers and has dividers with neat labels for every subject, with 3 separate sections for english because there are so many papers. and it's starting to feel natural to put things where they go and take time out of my day to make sure my things are organized. i've always suspected many personality traits are just habits so i'm glad this is coming together. i've been thinking about my memory and how bad it is especially when it comes to feelings and thoughts. often i will be in a situation that i've been in before, and it will seem very difficult and upsetting even though i can vaguely remember that it's happened before and i obviously survived it. this girlfriend thing is a great example; i've broken up with people before and at the time it seemed very tragic but now for the most part i don't even think about those people and when i do i generally just feel relieved that i'm not with them anymore. the only special thing about this person is that i'm the first person she's ever dated and i don't like the idea of being remembered as the first person to break someone's heart. (although, if i really, sincerely thought i would break her heart if i broke up with her, i wouldn't be thinking about breaking up with her. does this make sense? the reason i don't want to be with her in the first place is because i think if i broke up with her she would shrug and be mildly disappointed for a while and that would be all.)
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