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and you know, i'm lucky that my only feelings about this are confusion and mild irritation. i bet these kinds of conversations would be downright traumatic for a cis woman whose first experience with piv intercourse was non-consensual. a while ago a friend of mine got incredibly drunk and spent a good 10 minutes making fun of me for not having had sex before. i think if you're a woman there's no way to win as far as this goes. if i had a lot of sex ("too much") people would think i had some kind of emotional problem ("daddy issues", which is a great term that means "you're a woman who was mistreated by a man at some point during your childhood or adolescence, and that's sexy") or something. so, i don't know. if i'm going to get shit no matter what i do, i guess i might as well do what i want, which, right now, is wait.
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