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i used to work in a jewelry store and i was told to compliment customers and one time i told a lady she had nice skin. i considered this a compliment because at the time i was just figuring out makeup and realizing how much skill it involves, and this lady's makeup looked very well done, and i wanted to convey that i recognized that she put a lot of effort into applying her makeup well. but actually, a lot of people think that's a creepy thing to say to a stranger, it turns out. she seemed to think so, anyway. absolutely nothing happened, i now think about this story and laugh, and today people tell me often that i have good skin and i think it's so nice of them. i still tell people they have nice skin and it's totally fine, i told someone that just last night and she thought it was great. so, i don't know, maybe i should stop trying to learn all the rules for everything and just do things and see what happens. but that's scary. and i can do it anyway. maybe.
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