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lately i've been told a lot that i care too much about other people's feelings. actually, the person i like told me this last week. isn't that an odd thing to criticize someone for? "you try too hard not to hurt people and i don't like it." do people really like it when you don't worry about how they feel? is it really better to hurt someone than to be afraid of hurting them? i hold grudges forever, so maybe that's why i don't understand. when someone says or does something that upsets me, i may still be friends with them, but i never forget about whatever it was they did. anyway i wonder what it's like to be the type of person that other people get obsessed with. if i were like that, i probably wouldn't be very well liked, but people would definitely remember me. i don't know which is better.
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